Monday, July 16, 2018

Put that shit down!

If you want to live where passion, purpose, joy and ease are your constant companion then you have to be willing to shed all the things.
One of the heaviest burdens I have grown accustomed to carrying is my responsibility for other people. If those closest to me aren't happy, or they are suffering, I am suffering too.
Can you relate?
As a mother, I think it's almost second nature sometimes. Your whole world is taking care of them and we want to give them the world. You would move mountains for them, you have, your love is fierce.
Giving them responsibility for their own happiness and their own choices is the strongest, fiercest, bravest demonstration of your love. For them, and for yourself. (Not just for your children... but for everyone in your life!)
Isn't it true that you are the only one responsible for your happiness?
It sounds so simple when I write it out like that. It is truly simple but simple does not mean easy. The truth is always simple. The action needed to demonstrate and honor the truth takes effort and intention.
Our egos have had the corner on this area of our thinking and behavior for a very long time. It will fight to keep its hold of its territory. It will throw everything it has at you to talk you out of it. It is going to tell you how much other people are to blame and what they aren't doing or should be doing. It will use any distraction it can find to keep you from going within.
How would it feel to be able to put those burdens down?
How would it feel to be happy and joyful regardless of how other people feel?
What would be possible for you if you loved yourself enough to do that thing? To stand up for yourself? To stop bending over backwards for others and never seeing others do the same for you?
When I started peeling away the layers and looking into my dark corners it was the scariest thing I had ever done. I remember. It was also the most powerful.
This is how I serve my clients.
This is how I would serve you.
I hold the space for you so we can safely turn on the light and look around. I help you point the light at the truth rather than the egos distractions. I use my innate gifts and cultivated skillset to help you dig deep and pull out the roots.
You build a new foundation and everything changes.
There are only a few spaces left in this 1x1 mentorship so if this message speaks to you please do yourself the honor of booking a call and let's explore what is possible for you.